Meeting a Girl Sometimes girls and boys seem to avoid the company, of each other, but finally everyone finds something common between another person and falls in love at least once. Hypothetically speaking, you are just afraid of making a serious relationship, because you do not know what the girl thinks and feels about you. In general, the first time is always more complex. Men are so confused about what some women think about them that it can create some obsessions. It can lower your self-esteem, your (Mo-Jo) Example: (A term used in the Austin Powers movie). Do not let it happen! Despite difficulties, it is an exciting and anxious process in the beginning.