Relationships When it comes to relationships, every couple is different. They enjoy different activities, have different preferences concerning friendships, and they all have different opinions of how much time should be spent apart as well as together. However, I feel that togetherness can be either healthy or unhealthy in a relationship. My definition of healthy togetherness consists of three things. First, private time, meaning time together without friends or family, is important. Couples should have the right amount of quality time alone, so their relationship can continue to grow and so they will not feel deprived of undivided attention. Group time, or time with friends