Dealing with Death Death comes suddenly and unexpectedly for some people. Although this is tragic people must learn to deal with death in there own way, so they can move on with there lives. Some people cry, others can keep to themselves, but in the end you must understand that a person you once cared about is now dead. When an unexpected death in the family occurs the majority of people cry as a reaction to the news. This is a totally normal reaction to a death in the family, because this means they have started to deal with the death. They usually have a hard time focusing on other th